Your dating waitlist, shared in one tap.
Create a clean profile, get a unique username and code, and share when you're actually free. Not a dating app — the layer that makes them work.
Hey, this is my datingwaitlist username:
Three steps to a shareable dating identity.
Claim
Pick your @username. We auto-generate a unique short code to pair with it.
Set
Add photos, interests, location, and when you're actually free to meet.
Share
Give your @username to the people you choose. They request access — with or without your private code.
Everything you need to share, safely.
A focused set of tools — no swiping, no noise, just the essentials for sharing your dating identity on your terms.
One-tap share card
Username, code, and link copied in one tap.
Real availability
Set dates, times, and weekly slots so matches don't waste yours.
Verified badge
Optional identity check so people know you're real.
Privacy controls
Public, private, hidden from search, or approved-only.
Find by username
Search profiles by @username — no public directory, no swiping.
Waitlist
Save profiles you like or request access to private ones.
More features — work in progress
A preview of what's coming next to datingwaitlists.
Get verified
A trusted verified badge, granted manually by our team — so the people you share with know you're real.
Activate Payments
Let people send you money to go on a date with you, or play My Time, My Money — a mutual stake that keeps both sides accountable.
Both people put in the same amount before the date is locked in.
Each person enters a confirmation code from the other. If only one shows up, they receive the full stake.
If one side refuses to release the funds, the money stays locked for 48 hours. After that, access is permanently closed.
Built for people who hate dating apps, but still want to date.
No swiping. No endless chats. Just a clean profile and a real schedule.