Dating Waitlists
— shared in one tap.
A dating waitlist is a personal profile a single person shares so friends, followers, and admirers are notified the moment they're free to date. Not a dating app — your own shareable status. Read the dating waitlist guide.
To keep everyone safe, joining waitlists and scheduling dates are locked until identity and age are verified. This applies to every account — including premium.
Hey, this is my username:
Three steps to a shareable dating identity.
Claim
Pick your @username. We auto-generate a unique short code to pair with it.
Set
Add photos, interests, location, and when you're actually free to meet.
Share
Give your @username to the people you choose. They request access — with or without your private code.
1 · Copy your DatingWaitlists handle
Tap to copy @alex and your private code in one go.
Everything you need to share, safely.
A focused set of tools — no swiping, no noise, just the essentials for sharing your dating identity on your terms.
One-tap share card
Username, code, and link copied in one tap.
Real availability
Set dates, times, and weekly slots so matches don't waste yours.
Mandatory verification
Age and ID checks are required, not optional. Every active user is verified.
Privacy controls
Public, private, hidden from search, or approved-only.
Find by username
Search profiles by @username — no public directory, no swiping.
Waitlist
Save profiles you like or request access to private ones.
More features — work in progress
A preview of what's coming next to datingwaitlists.
Get verified
Verify your age and identity with your government ID via Didit. Verified users unlock joining waitlists and scheduling dates — and everyone sees a trusted badge.
Activate Payments
People can support the cost of a date — including getting ready, makeup, outfit prep, transport, and other date-related expenses — or use My Time, My Money, a 50:50 stake that keeps both sides accountable. If one person does not show up, part of their stake is transferred to the person who attended, based on the confirmation flow.
Support makeup, outfit prep, transport, and the time it takes to get ready.
Both people lock in the same amount before the date, so commitment is shared.
If one person does not show up, part of their stake goes to the person who kept the commitment and attended.
Simple, honest pricing.
Start free. Upgrade when you want unlimited access and a Premium badge.
Free
ForeverEverything you need to try it out.
- Join up to 5 waitlists
- See up to 5 people per waitlist
- Up to 5 DateSafe verifications / month
- Your own shareable profile
- Basic profile visibility
Premium
MonthlyFor people who take dating seriously.
- Advanced search filters & sorting (age, gender, city, languages, interests)
- Unlimited waitlists
- Create custom waitlists for specific dates & activities
- See everyone on every waitlist
- Unlimited DateSafe verifications
- Premium badge on your profile
- Reputation score — attended & cancelled dates on every profile
- Better visibility in waitlists & search
- Priority access to new features
Cancel anytime. No hidden fees.
Built for people who hate dating apps, but still want to date.
No swiping. No endless chats. Just a clean profile and a real schedule.